Learning the secrets and the
"rules" of success is a passion of mine. I have spent the past 7
years studying, reading, listening and attending seminars on this topic, and
hundreds of thousands of dollars and countless hours later, here are some of
the things I have figured out:
1. You need a big "why" for any goal. This is your reason for doing what you do, and this reason has to be big enough to get you out of bed, and keep you working when you "don't feel like it". Without this, you get temporarily motivated, excited and passionate, but it will never last. You will set goals, New Years' Resolutions, and make promises to yourself, but you won't have the will to keep going when that initial burst of conviction wears off. 2. You need to understand your reasons for NOT wanting to achieve. Sounds strange, but our mind does not keep us from success to be mean; there is always a benefit your subconscious mind sees to stay exactly as you are, without your goal. Finding out what that is and resolving it is critical to your success. 3. The best way to tell your future is to create it.
I see no reason to leave the content of you
future up to chance. If you really want to achieve success, you need a very
clear image of how you define that success. What does it look like, feel like,
and sound like? Don’t limit yourself, because there are possibilities you could
not even imagine from where you currently are, but get an idea. Since energy
cannot be created nor destroyed, everything you want already exists; it simply
needs to change form. Hold that image long enough and it will be drawn to you
as you move towards it.
4. Act.
Notice I said it will be drawn to you as you move towards it. I truly believe
the universe can only do for you what it can do through you; waiting for your
dreams to rain down from the sky will leave you waiting a great deal. Get clear
and focused and then take inspired action, huge action, that makes your dreams
inevitable.
5. Never
stop readjusting and realigning.
Success, like life, is never static. It
will require you to be dynamic and changeable. Our knowledge doubles every 3
years, so you CANNOT keep doing what you have always done and expect to even
stay the same; if you refuse to evolve, you are not only refusing to grow, you
are actually DE-volving. Realign your goals and your actions with your purpose
constantly. And embrace change; it is, ironically, the only constant.
6. Practice,
and then simply let go and trust.
Success requires practice. Just as working
out for 5 days for 1 minute will not transform your body, inconsistent action
and focus on your goals will not transform your life. You need to bring
structure and order to any area that you want to be successful in. After that,
comes the easiest and yet most difficult task – letting go and trusting that
what you desire is already coming.
This work is my passion. If you resonate with this Success Formula and want to learn more, I invite you to join Goal Ninjas: 6 Steps to the Kick Ass Life you Crave, starting November 6, 2010. If you want to learn more, check out www.goalninjas.com, or call Kristi at 780.454.5299 |
Showing posts with label success. Show all posts
Showing posts with label success. Show all posts
Monday, September 13, 2010
Is there a success formula?
Monday, February 1, 2010
Are you Hungry?
Here's an interesting idea - I was reading a great blog...ironically, this blog was ABOUT blogging [http://www.fridaytrafficreport.com], and came across an interesting post on what makes us, collectively, more likely to "rise to the occasion" and churn out our best work. The thought being this - as a culture in North America, we are soft. We are prosperous, comfortable and, well, really really really lucky. This breeds complacency. The really amazing, inspirational stories happen during massive depressions and wars and famines. Let's be honest - regardless of how bad we think the economy is and how tragic the losses in Iraq are, we, as a culture, are still remarkably comfortable. Change only happens when pain is applied (only the truly motivated change purely towards pleasure).
So how do we create a hunger, as Jack Humphrey calls it, to achieve great things in light of all this "comfort"? Well, here's my two cents on the matter (that's what blogs are for, yes?)
- Get very clear on what you DON'T want. Yes, I realize this goes against everything we are told by Law of Attraction teachers - never focus on what you don't want. I agree, but the point is not to focus on the negative, but to be clear on it. From that, you can get clear on what you DO want, in all its technicolored glory!
- Like it or not, we have a "default future" - a future that simply "happens" when we are on auto-pilot. It's imperative that you get clear on what consequences there will be if you continue to float down the "apathy path". Get clear on what those consequences are, and you will have motivation to move into action.
- Focus not on what would make you "comfortable" or "secure". These are apathetic, soft, lazy words. As Dr. Joe Vitale from the movie The Secret says, "Dare something worthy". Imagine you are in the future and a group of people are discussing what person, dead or alive, they would most like to have dinner with. Someone says your name and everyone is in agreement - it would be amazing to pick your brain and figure out how you ... (and it's your job to fill in the blank with whatever grand, life-changing, no-limits, amazing feat you accomplished in your lifetime). This will get you out of your head, away from the SMART, "achievable" goals and into the gracious world of big, juicy dreams. What would you do if you could not fail? These are the kind of dreams that will keep you hungry!
However you live your life, chose to LIVE IT! Make choices! Be grateful for what you have, but never complacent. And always hunger for your really big dreams. No one has ever been inspired by someone who is careful, comfortable and secure. The only way to affect true change in the world is to live your life to the fullest.
If you need help busting through the fog of a comfortable life and into your bright and colorful destiny, you might want to check out this FREE audio on how to create your year - listen online here -Goal Ninja Audio Online
Now go forth and live vibrantly!
If you need help busting through the fog of a comfortable life and into your bright and colorful destiny, you might want to check out this FREE audio on how to create your year - listen online here -Goal Ninja Audio Online
Now go forth and live vibrantly!
Kristi Shmyr
Prana Holistic
10138 121st Edmonton
780.454.5299
kristi@pranaholisti.ca
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